|You may want things to get back to normal so you can get on with
your life. For myself, I must discover who I am right now and
rebuild my life based on that. Here are some things to think about -
|FALSIFICATION OF TYPE. Have you
been living a lie in order to survive?
Maybe you've become the person you
need to be, rather than the person you
|How long is it since you've been able to live
"normally"? Weeks, months, years? Should we
expect to return to those times? Anybody
who's been zapped by life wants things to be
"normal" again. But how can you build a new
life If you're still trying to live the old one?
|Is "falsifying type" about deception?
No, it's about becoming a person who
can survive in your environment.
|For example, if the family (or employer) doesn't respect your
needs, you might have to pretend to be a different kind of person.
We used to call it "fake it till you make it."
But faking it for too long can mess you up. There comes
a time to arrange a life more in line with your real self.